Typical story. Spouse cheats. Spouse finds out. Eruption. Steps of acceptance. And often these days, reconciliation. Every person in the world will tell you "If my husband/wife ever cheated on me, I'd be gone in a second". It's bullshit. Nobody knows what they'll do until they're in the position to have to handle it.
The question (or questions) is: For the spouses who choose to stay, how do you move on? Is it consuming? Was it easy to forgive and forget? Did you meet the other person? How has it played out for you?
From what I've gathered, most spouses who have chosen to stay, don't regret it. Many are able to pick up the pieces and move on. Some, of course, stick to their guns and are out the door the second they hear the words. Personally, I actually know of more who have stayed. But, to each their own.
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